Dating tip #5: Pacing and Sexual contact


You can't take a relationship faster than the pace at which both guys are comfortable.  In other words, if you tend to be more intensive or serious than the other guy, ease up.  Allow him time to discover how he feels and wants to proceed.  Let go of needing to control the outcome.  Be patient.  It's usually not a good idea to have sex until both men have at least gotten to know the basics about one another and respect each other as human and sexual beings.  If you are seriously looking for a relationship, give it time to be more than just a sexual encounter. (From 7 Day Dating and Relationship Plan by Grant Wheaton)

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